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August 16th, 2010


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07:53 am - Forgive, but Never Forget!
It's always been easy for me to forgive someone that does me wrong, and over the years it used to be easy to simply forget the incident. But as of late, I've totally run out of forgetting and begun to focus on the issue and recognize that with some people... they will always have a pattern of behavior that will never change. So I've stopped forgetting what people do to me, and focused more on how to simply learn from my misguided attempts to be understanding and became more protective of myself.

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From:howeverbrief
Date:August 16th, 2010 07:08 pm (UTC)
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That's one of my mottos too. I tend to think that even if I have gotten over something, I should remember it so I don't make the same mistake again. It doesn't always work, but I at least try to learn from past missteps so that I continue to improve. It also helps me to recognize similar patterns and predict future behavior I might not have otherwise noticed.

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